There are days, and some times weeks or months, when everything goes a bit topsy turvy. Some times it really isn’t all that bad. No one challenge is all that big, but everything seems to go a little wonky at the same time. We could argue whether more bad things are really happening or if we are just worn down, less resilient, and seeing the world differently. Whatever the case, we end up feeling discombobulated.
As I scrolled my FB feed this morning, I saw a post about a truly unique sign in the Milwaukee airport,”Recombobulation Area.” Brilliant! This is exactly what every rider needs!
Enter the latest equestrian facility design innovation: the “Recombobulation Area.” Of course there will need to be several of them. The first is at the entrance to the farm. This could be as simple as a small pull-off area near the barn where we take a moment to close our eyes, take a few deep breaths, and shed the stresses of the outside world.
The second, a small person sized invisible enclosure at the pasture gate or stall door where we pause and connect to the energy and presence of our equine partners. At the same time, we can connect to ourselves, noticing our own state of being and taking a moment to balance and integrate.
The third could be the recombobulation mounting block. In addition to grounding ourselves, we can connect to our capability and confidence while remembering our personal motivations and goals. We can then marshal our ideal mindset for our ride, fine-tuning our intentions and attitudes. Personally, I would use this time to connect to curiosity, openness, and a learners mindset.
Finally, the post-ride space. This mystical space is designed to help riders integrate and appreciate the whole experience. A place where they might regain their equilibrium and composure after a particularly challenging ride. Or, bask in the joy of personal accomplishment and partnership with their horse. A space where they can bury their nose deeply in their horse’s neck and breathe in the beauty of this awe-some experience. Bathe in a deep sense of gratitude for these amazing creatures.
One last thought. I imagine these Recombobulation Areas sprinkled generously with kind and supportive others. People with whom we share our triumphs and tumbles, with whom we laugh and cheer and cry. People who lift each other up.
How would you design your “Recombobulation Area”? ~ Paul
PC – @eringilmorephotography @eringilmorephotos