Connected… Really Connected

[fusion_builder_container type=”flex” hundred_percent=”no” hundred_percent_height=”no” hundred_percent_height_scroll=”no” align_content=”stretch” flex_align_items=”flex-start” flex_justify_content=”flex-start” hundred_percent_height_center_content=”yes” equal_height_columns=”no” container_tag=”div” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” status=”published” border_style=”solid” box_shadow=”no” box_shadow_blur=”0″ box_shadow_spread=”0″ gradient_start_position=”0″ gradient_end_position=”100″ gradient_type=”linear” radial_direction=”center center” linear_angle=”180″ background_position=”center center” background_repeat=”no-repeat” fade=”no” background_parallax=”none” enable_mobile=”no” parallax_speed=”0.3″ background_blend_mode=”none” video_aspect_ratio=”16:9″ video_loop=”yes” video_mute=”yes” absolute=”off” absolute_devices=”small,medium,large” sticky=”off” sticky_devices=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” sticky_transition_offset=”0″ scroll_offset=”0″ animation_direction=”left” animation_speed=”0.3″ filter_hue=”0″ filter_saturation=”100″ filter_brightness=”100″ filter_contrast=”100″ filter_invert=”0″ filter_sepia=”0″ filter_opacity=”100″ filter_blur=”0″ filter_hue_hover=”0″ filter_saturation_hover=”100″ filter_brightness_hover=”100″ filter_contrast_hover=”100″ filter_invert_hover=”0″ filter_sepia_hover=”0″ filter_opacity_hover=”100″ filter_blur_hover=”0″][fusion_builder_row][fusion_builder_column type=”1_1″ type=”1_1″ layout=”1_2″ align_self=”stretch” content_layout=”column” align_content=”flex-start” content_wrap=”wrap” center_content=”no” target=”_self” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” sticky_display=”normal,sticky” order_medium=”0″ order_small=”0″ margin_top=”22px” margin_bottom=”0px” hover_type=”none” border_style=”solid” box_shadow=”no” box_shadow_blur=”0″ box_shadow_spread=”0″ background_type=”single” gradient_start_position=”0″ gradient_end_position=”100″ gradient_type=”linear” radial_direction=”center center” linear_angle=”180″ background_position=”left top” background_repeat=”no-repeat” background_blend_mode=”none” animation_direction=”left” animation_speed=”0.3″ filter_type=”regular” filter_hue=”0″ filter_saturation=”100″ filter_brightness=”100″ filter_contrast=”100″ filter_invert=”0″ filter_sepia=”0″ filter_opacity=”100″ filter_blur=”0″ filter_hue_hover=”0″ filter_saturation_hover=”100″ filter_brightness_hover=”100″ filter_contrast_hover=”100″ filter_invert_hover=”0″ filter_sepia_hover=”0″ filter_opacity_hover=”100″ filter_blur_hover=”0″ last=”true” border_position=”all” first=”true” padding_left_small=”20px” padding_right_small=”20px” min_height=”” link=””][fusion_title title_type=”text” rotation_effect=”bounceIn” display_time=”1200″ highlight_effect=”circle” loop_animation=”off” highlight_width=”9″ highlight_top_margin=”0″ title_link=”off” link_target=”_self” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” sticky_display=”normal,sticky” content_align=”left” size=”2″ fusion_font_family_title_font=”'Palatino Linotype', 'Book Antiqua', Palatino, serif” font_size=”27px” text_color=”#003429″ text_shadow=”no” text_shadow_blur=”0″ text_stroke=”no” text_stroke_size=”1″ text_overflow=”none” gradient_font=”no” gradient_start_position=”0″ gradient_end_position=”100″ gradient_type=”linear” radial_direction=”center center” linear_angle=”180″ style_type=”none” sep_color=”#834840″ animation_direction=”left” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_delay=”0″]

Yesterday marked the end of my 62nd trip around the sun. My celebration started the evening before when my good friend Maleina dropped off the most amazing carrot cake and a fabulous mug covered with pictures of me and my mare Nubble at a barn staff meeting.

The actual birthday kicked off with my “birthday banner”, a family tradition where good friends and family share their experience of you. The banner is always a mix of gooey heartfelt appreciation and good-hearted teasing fun. This year was no exception.

The day continued with my favorite thing, warm loving attention. My wife Pam doted on me all day, We had breakfast with a good friend that shares my birthday. I received texts and calls from family and friends. I met with several clients; work that always fills my heart and warms my soul. A quiet dinner with Pam and, of course, dancing.

This morning I jumped on Facebook. I had seen the posts and comments and DM’s come in over the course of the day yesterday. I had reacted or responded to most of them. But, this morning I went through them and reflected on how I knew each person and the relationship I had with each one.

When I was a young man I often worried about whether I would be successful. I came to view success as having a positive impact on those with whom I lived and worked. I woke this morning realizing that in some ways I had only gotten it half right. I think a better measure of success is not so much about how I impact others but how deeply connected I am, appreciating how others meaningfully impact me and my life.

As I remember and reflect on my connections with the people and horses and dogs and cats and fish (that’s a story for another day) who have shared in my journey, I truly appreciate that I am rich beyond measure. I want to thank each and every one of you for the impact you have had on me and the richness you have brought to my life. Let’s stay connected… really connected. ~ Paul

[/fusion_title][fusion_imageframe custom_aspect_ratio=”35″ lightbox=”no” linktarget=”_self” hide_on_mobile=”small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility” sticky_display=”normal,sticky” align_medium=”none” align_small=”none” align=”none” hover_type=”none” magnify_duration=”120″ scroll_height=”100″ scroll_speed=”1″ caption_style=”off” caption_align_medium=”none” caption_align_small=”none” caption_align=”none” caption_title_tag=”2″ animation_direction=”left” animation_speed=”0.3″ animation_delay=”0″ filter_hue=”0″ filter_saturation=”100″ filter_brightness=”100″ filter_contrast=”100″ filter_invert=”0″ filter_sepia=”0″ filter_opacity=”100″ filter_blur=”0″ filter_hue_hover=”0″ filter_saturation_hover=”100″ filter_brightness_hover=”100″ filter_contrast_hover=”100″ filter_invert_hover=”0″ filter_sepia_hover=”0″ filter_opacity_hover=”100″ filter_blur_hover=”0″ aspect_ratio_position=”33% 1%” image_id=”2906|full”]https://ridingfar.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/psych-4.jpg[/fusion_imageframe][/fusion_builder_column][/fusion_builder_row][/fusion_builder_container]

Reply...

Horse training & equestrian mental skills coaching

Transformative experiences for horses & riders

Connect

insights

Read our

@Ridingfarllc

come along on the ride