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If I could make an impact with equestrians in only one specific way I would absolutely focus on influencing the way we lead our horses. Focus on leading and it could change the quality of everything you do. 

For me, leading is a lot more than getting from point a to point b. It’s an ever present mindset that builds clarity and allows a relationship to grow. It’s my horse’s confidence in me to choose a wise and safe path forward, my knowing he will be by my side, and my confidence in myself to make decisions that will affect both of us. It’s saying “this is the path I’m choosing for us right now and I’m asking you to allow me to take us.” It’s about being together, not rushing, not forcing. 

In the most concrete sense, leading is about safety and communication. When I stop my feet, my horse stops his feet, and I have influence of the nose, shoulders, and haunches by way of body language, lead rope, and driving aid (whip, end of lead rope, flag, whatever it may be). Their movement mirrors mine as well as their energy, focus, and groundedness. 

If there’s an issue with the relationship, there will be an issue in leading. Working out the leading will improve everything, especially riding. If your horse pushes through the bit, they’ll probably push past you on the ground. If they have trouble bending on a circle they’ll probably lean on you with their shoulders when walking in from the paddock. It’s all connected and can’t be ignored, because it truly makes a difference. 

~ Justin 

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