We are excited about our latest endeavor: providing specialized resources for riding instructors. Through our work, we’ve realized that many instructors, particularly in the United States, receive extensive training in horsemanship and technical expertise but little guidance on teaching people effectively. This gap in training is significant. Understanding human learning and emotions is crucial for successful instruction.

Riding often evokes strong emotions in students, such as fear, excitement, or self-judgment. Yet, instructors are rarely equipped with strategies to address these emotional responses or the science behind how people learn. To bridge this gap, we’re developing resources to help instructors manage emotions, implement effective teaching strategies, and better support their students.

As part of this initiative, we’re offering a free online class designed specifically for riding instructors, coaches, and clinicians. Join us for one of three live sessions:

• June 12 at 7:00 PM EDT
• June 16 at 12:00 PM EDT
• June 18 at 7:00 PM EDT

In this session, you’ll discover:

• Why emotional outbursts occur in the saddle, even when lessons seem to be going well
• What’s happening in a student’s nervous system during moments of distress
• How to support students without taking responsibility for their emotions

You’ll leave with a deeper understanding of these dynamics and practical tools you can apply immediately in your teaching.

We’d love for you to join us!
Save your seat here (Button: https://course.ridingfar.com/join-us )

As a dedicated riding instructor, you’ve invested time and effort to hone your skills and deepen your knowledge. Your passion lies in helping your students grow, progress, and succeed in their riding journey. You can see the path forward clearly, and the next step is right there, waiting for them to take. Yet, sometimes, something holds them back.

Every trainer knows the story of a promising student whose progress stalls. You recognize their potential and have equipped them with the skills to take the next step. But when they reach that threshold, they freeze, as if an invisible barrier blocks the way. The culprit? Fear.

Fear is a natural part of our human experience, hardwired into our neural architecture to keep us safe. It has helped us survive and navigate an uncertain world, encouraging caution as we explore new territory. However, not everyone experiences fear in the same way. Some riders can step far outside their comfort zone while staying grounded and composed. Others have a smaller window of tolerance, becoming overwhelmed by anxiety, which may manifest as argumentative behavior, tears, or freezing in the saddle.

Throughout my career, I’ve worked with riders to navigate their fears and supported instructors in developing the understanding and tools to guide their students through these challenges. Helping students grow emotionally as riders is much like training horses: while occasional breakthroughs happen, progress is often gradual, built through small, steady steps. To stay on this path, you need confidence in your skills and a supportive community to turn to when challenges arise.

We’ve heard your calls for accessible resources and support, and we’re here to help. Join us for our upcoming Emotions in the Arena webinar, where you’ll learn three key strategies to help your riding students manage their emotions, stay focused, and build resilience in the arena.

We know your time is precious, so we’re offering this free webinar on three different days and times to fit your schedule. Reserve your spot here (https://course.ridingfar.com/join-us) and take the first step toward empowering your students to overcome fear and thrive. We look forward to seeing you there! 

~ Paul

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As riding instructors, we often witness intense emotions in our students. The challenges of horseback riding—whether mastering a new skill or facing a horse’s unpredictable nature—can spark fear, frustration, or tears. When a student has a meltdown, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or unsure how to respond.

Our instinct might be to control the situation with phrases like, “It’s not that bad,” or “Stop crying,” or even offer bribes to regain calm. While these tactics may seem effective in the moment, they often fall short and can lead to recurring emotional outbursts.

There’s a better way: empathic connection. By pausing to see the situation through your student’s eyes, understanding their experience, and showing genuine curiosity, you can defuse intense emotions and build trust. This isn’t about agreeing with their perspective—it’s about making them feel seen and safe.

Here’s how to put empathy into practice:

1. Pause and Observe: Take a moment to notice your student’s emotional state without judgment.
2. Reflect Their Experience: Say something like, “I can see this feels really tough right now. Can you tell me what’s going on?”
3. Validate Their Feelings: Acknowledge their emotions without trying to fix them immediately. For example, “It’s okay to feel scared; riding can be challenging.”

Empathy engages the nervous system’s natural ability to regulate emotions. While it’s not a magic fix—some riders may still struggle with anger or tears—it creates a safe space for emotional growth. This approach fosters resilience, strengthens the instructor-student bond, and helps riders feel valued, setting them up for success both in the saddle and beyond.

Let’s embrace empathy in our teaching to create a supportive environment where our students can thrive. How do you support your riders’ emotional regulation? Share your strategies below!

~ Paul

Train Tracks

The other day, a client called and asked if I had time to talk. They were having a particularly difficult day and hoped for a brief reset to gain some perspective. On tough days like that, it can feel like we’re on a runaway train. We may not like where we’re headed, but trains travel on tracks, and it often seems like we have little choice in the matter.

There’s an old saying: “If you get on the wrong train, get off at the nearest station. The longer you wait, the more expensive the return trip will be.” However, this requires us to recognize that we’re on the wrong train, find a station where we can disembark, and slow the train enough to step off safely.

Throughout my career, I’ve helped people find their way off runaway trains. One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is that to assist someone effectively, I can’t be on the same set of tracks. If I jump onto their tracks and get lost in their perspective, one of two things inevitably happens: I either get run over or sucked into riding their train with them. Neither outcome is particularly helpful.

So, what do you do when a student is struggling during a lesson? How can you help them slow their proverbial train or change tracks? The most critical step is to stay on your own set of tracks. This is what experienced trainers do when working with a troubled horse. They maintain their calm, trust in the process, and rely on their experience. They avoid getting caught up in the emotional energy of the horse.

Your train should be powered by knowledge, experience, and confidence that you can guide your student safely through the crisis. 

My advice? Build your tracks before you need them. Invest in yourself by working on staying grounded and improving your emotional regulation. Additionally, invest in understanding your students—how they learn, how emotions function, and a set of skills you can share to help them regulate themselves.

As you grow, you’ll develop a process you can trust. Then, you can invite your students to join you on your set of tracks.

Photo by Neelkamal Deka on Unsplash

For all of us there are moments in a lesson when the horse is the least complicated part of being in the arena.

We’ve all been there when a student suddenly wells up mid-ride, or they go silent, or respond to a simple request with visible frustration.

As instructors, we often find ourselves supporting our students through more than just riding techniques. The emotional landscape of the arena can be complex and unexpected.

Riding Far is putting together a free training for instructors, coaches, and clinicians to help navigate these moments with greater clarity and confidence.

We’d love your help shaping it.

To make sure it speaks directly to what would help you the most, we’ve asked a few questions a short form, it just takes a few minutes.

If you’ve ever thought, “I wish I had more tools for these moments,” we’d be honored to hear what you need.

You’re welcome to remain anonymous.

Click here -> https://link.ridingfar.com/widget/form/N04MzDGpRHPeU61HEjdg

Thank you in advance for helping us help you.